HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY TO ALL MOTHERS OUT THERE

Marriage is like a full-time investment for women in her life as a daughter in law, wife, and mother. But the role of a daughter and sister is neglected in our society.

The patriarchal norms prevalent in our society have conditioned women so much that they don’t have time to meet their families. In some instances, they don’t even have time for their selves because it is said “Thoda baradsht karna sikhna chahiye aurton ko”.It is the woman who feels that she is not able to play a role of a daughter or a sister. She misses the time when everyone used to get together and enjoy either by talking or playing with family.She is only left with the role of the daughter in law, wife, and a mother.

It hurts me so much when we hear or see that it is the daughter-in-laws doing everything and nobody even offers to help .Is this the reason why her parents get her married? Should not be !!As everyone human being has some dreams and aspirations and most importantly she needs to live for her self.

She is the one who wakes up early in the morning, does all the household chores, and does everything possible and impossible things to keep her family happy. Yet, what she gets in return is domestic violence which she quietly faces. But now the times have changed, every woman is aware of her rights and she doesn’t stop till she is not able to achieve what she wants.
Marriage shouldn’t feel like a burden to a woman. Basically what every girl wants is RESPECT which in our country is most of the time not given. If you respect anyone they will also respect you. However, if you hit her to be ready for repercussions.
Recently, I saw Thappad, a movie starring Tapsee as a lead actor. The story revolved around a slap. For our society and some men, it is just a slap but you have no right or authority to slap anyone .that single slap could change a woman’s life and that’s how Tapsee’s life changed in a second. It is so common to hear these days from our maids that yesterday “my husband was drunk and he hit me hard” .Their are very few women who stand up for this situation properly. A man should understand that we are not robots whenever you want you can do anything. It is so sad to see where a woman giving up a career for her family, where a woman is told to stay silent but this was maybe an old tradition.
As we are in the 21st century the mindsets have been changing. The families are opening to new law and order. Society has also started thinking about what it means for a woman to be respected. For her, her reputation matters the most and as time changes that have been taken care of.

On the occasion of MOTHER’S DAY, I would like to say it is time for you to fight back now and stop domestic violence and harassment .There are various women helpline numbers and, places where you can reach and get help as soon as possible. You can always talk to your family and friends. You cant always feel traumatized. I hope all mothers, daughters, sisters, mothers-in-law live a peaceful and blissful life.

“MOTHER IS A BEHAVIOUR . TO LOVING SOMEONE FROM BOTTOM OF YOUR HEART IS A BEHAVIOUR SND AS I ALWAYS SAY MOTHER IS BEYOND GENDER, IT COULD BE A WOMAN, FATHER SND A TRANSGENDER, IT COULD BE ANYONE”
-Gauri Sawant

Life is a gift. It’s also unpredictable. Self-defense helps to prepare you for unexpected situations and also helps develop increased mental and physical health. As time goes by I feel that it is very important for a girl to know how to defend herself. Every day we get to hear so many cases of bullying, eve-teasing, and molestation, but do we know what to do if such things happen? NO. These days the number of cases is rising and now there are so many classes and institutions where an individual can take self-defense training. Some of the institutions are DARE ( Defence Against Rape and Eve Teasers) by the Institute of Martial Science and Blank Noise which work towards women’s self-defense. If we don’t learn to defend ourselves, boys will keep on taking advantage that she won’t she won’t be able to do anything. But does he know that you can punch him back too? NO, so let him know that you can punch him. You will feel so happy when you realize that you defeated him and now he would have to deal with repercussions.

There are so many advantages of undergoing self-defense training some of them can be that you are aware of your surroundings while you are walking, you also become strong and it sets a positive attitude towards your life.

Now it is time to act. Some of the techniques that a girl should know to defend herself are :

1. ALWAYS CARRY A PEPPER SPRAY OR FORK
2. NOTE DOWN THE NUMBER OF CAB/AUTO WHILE YOU ARE TRAVELLING ALONE
3. OPT FOR JUDO KARATE, MIXED MARTIAL ARTS OR KNOW SOME WAYS USING ELBOW.

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ITS TIME TO TAKE A REVENGE ENOUGH IS ENOUGH

“ONE HAND IS EQUAL TO ONE WEAPON IN TIMES OF NEED”

A SMALL TRIBUTE TO FEARLESS GIRL-JYOTI SINGH

HOW DO WE GUYS REMEMBER THE DATE? THE DAY WHEN A GIRL NAMED JYOTI SINGH WAS RAPED ON A MOVING BUS AT 9:53 p.m AND WAS THROWN ON THE ROAD. DO WE KNOW WHY IT IS CALLED AS NIRBHAYA RAPE CASE BECAUSE THAT FEARLESS GIRL FOUGHT AT EVERY POINT OF TIME.

Who according to you is the wildest animal in India? Honestly according to me a MAN is the wildest, hungriest and the biggest animal which lives on our planet. To satisfy his so-called day and night needs and fill up his stomach he does by it eating the flesh of a woman. This is what we deserve as human beings?

After raping what was the need to burn her or put an iron rod into her vagina? Burning or leaving the body naked on the road is not a way. Every girl when grows up thinks that she will become something. But on the other side, she doesn’t know what is already planned for her. ” The sound of her cries still haunts me every day,” said Nirbhaya’s mother. These days when a girl walks on the road she is scared that she might be raped too. Rape has become a trend in India which hasn’t stopped be it NIRBHAYA, ASIFA or PRIYANKA REDDY. Mothers think that wow a son is born and will make the family proud but who knows he will become a RAPIST.l haunts me every day,” said the mother of the victim.

It is no point in keeping quiet now because I don’t think that the rapists would be hung. There is so much anguish after the Hyderabad Rape case but still, the laws have not been made.

The real justice to Nirbhaya and other girls will be given when any rapist would be hung. It is no point in waiting for such a day as you need to stand on your own. And the thought which made me angry was that rape videos are now available on porn websites which is ridiculous.

“NO ONE LIKES TO BE RAPED AND NO ONE LIKES TO BE CALLED A RAPIST”Exactly if you don’t want to be called a rapist then why do you rape a girl.

THIS BLOG IS BEING SPECIFICALLY WRITTEN ON 16TH DECEMBER 2019 TO PAY A TRIBUTE TO NIRBHAYA AND AT 9:53.

Disclaimer: not generalizing all men. Only those who don’t take consent and respect it.

Now I finally realized that the line said by Amitabh Bachchan in the movie Pink is wrong according to this time

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If we see today scenario in which we are living especially being in places of Delhi and NCR. Yeh mahaan idea Aaj Kal bhi logo ko din mei bhi aata hai! We have so many times heard the stories of a girl being bullied or harassed or kidnapped during the day time be it in buses, metros, cabs or while traveling in an auto. Especially if the girl is wearing a short dress and traveling alone the boys notice or notice and make nasty comments.and if the girl reverts the boy is like TERA TOH RAPE HOJAEGA. It is always better to carry some equipment such as a knife or pepper spray.

C’mon, are we living in the 21st century? I don’t think so. If we save our boys then only our girls will be safe. Why do we have to pull your car window and check out how the girl is walking and what is she wearing? even nowadays bike riders while riding don’t focus on driving but they after every minute have to twist their neck to check her out.

Now a girl has the right to wear what she wants too but she alters her way of living according to society and boys. Girls after or before the marriage are pressurized to change their way of living depending on others. WHAT A SHAME BOYS!!

#makegirlsfeelsafe

Where are we living? Are we living in a world where human trafficking is prevalent? Yes, we are. Human trafficking defines Trafficking in Persons as the recruitment, transportation, transfer, harboring or receipt of persons, by means of the threat or use of force or other forms of coercion, of abduction, of fraud, of deception, of the abuse of power or of a position of vulnerability or of the giving or receiving of payments or benefits to achieve the consent of a person having control over another person, for the purpose of exploitation. Exploitation shall include, at a minimum, the exploitation of the prostitution of others or other forms of sexual exploitation, forced labor or services, slavery or practices similar to slavery, servitude or the removal of organs. About 1 million girls are sold in a year.

This is insane.  Even our court is so unfair that when something happens then the laws are made. Why do we have to wait for something to happen?  when the girls are taken for human trafficking they are first trained properly so that they can engage with the customers. Behind the curtains, we don’t know what is happening but now we can know through social media. A girl is usually kidnapped, abused badly, is given so many drugs and also sometimes alcohol,  the girl is raped and then sold in the market.

Mostly we see children and adolescents begging or selling knick-knacks on the streets in towns and cities. We talk about that we should educate the girl child but these days it is more important to educate the boy about all this so that in future he doesn’t end up doing all this. It is a myth that most girls are the victim but nowadays it is also not safe for the boys. Many boys are also so badly treated and then their life is also destroyed as it is not easy for anyone to adapt to these as it is a very situation.

In some families when the parents are not educated they are bribed by some persons saying that we have opened a school for girls so please send your child their but in reality, the girls are misbehaved only. If the girl refuses to do anything that the men say when they are sold and prepared to be engaged with customers then the girls are killed.

 If you want to gain pleasure in your life then do it by doing other things which also help you to be a better person.  Karma plays a very important role in an individual life. .Our body is our privacy boys, not yours. Everyone has an equal right to life and personal liberty and it cannot be snatched.

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A mother is a so precious gift that God has gifted us. The root mater means “mother.” The name mother arises when she gives birth to a child. We are so grateful that we all have one special person in our life. Don’t forget that your mother is only your BEST FRIEND. Mother is the one who has always supported us, cared for us and most importantly nurtured us as an individual. Whenever you go outside and return home then you must have noticed the first word you speak is Mumma and when we don’t find her at home you get sad and call her. Usually, we say Mumma you are bad because she scolds you but that is not scolding that is her love towards you. She sacrifices her own life for you. A mother is always in your heart because she is as sweet as honey. So lucky to see hardworking moms. I have been blessed with a mom who is gorgeous, hardworking and cool.

Moms are powerful because they have accepted so much pain for 9 months and till we grow up. We should never disrespect our mother in spite of getting scolded or when she makes you do a thing that you don’t like. This day is important for us as well as for our mothers. She is the epitome of love, affection, sacrifice, and generosity. you should respect your mother and don’t ever think to leave her alone because she is the purest soul and will be always there for you in your good and bad times no matter what.

Just think of children who don’t have mothers how they feel and how badly they miss their mother. Without a mother the society is incomplete. Spend your all special moments with her, because you have given a one-time chance to live it so enjoy it with your most important person in life. Wishing all the moms a very HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY.

International women’s day is a global day celebrating the social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women. Purple is indicated as an international women’s day color. Women’s day shouldn’t only be celebrated on 8 March. Why only on this day women should be wished or gifted something and treated nicely? There are many things in society that have to be changed. There are so many women who are gaining popularity by showcasing their talents and capabilities. Nowadays in corporate sectors, men have started realizing the importance of women’s employment and how they are to be treated during work. There are also guidelines by the government which have been provided in the offices especially where women are employed. Violence against women also has to be stopped. We say that women are goddesses. We just need some respect in society. There are some organizations and societies which work on international women’s day by conducting various activities. Women are a source of inspiration to the society as well as family.
So wishing all the ladies a very Happy Women’s Day !!

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